Temper tantrums have been a hot topic for quite some time. Just search online – you’ll find hundreds of thousands of resources that deal with them. Bookstores like Barnes & Noble, Borders & Amazon.com alone yield hundreds of books pertaining to the subject!
Understanding why tantrums happen can help parents better deal with kids having temper tantrums.
Kids having temper tantrums are dealing with their frustrations of the moment, whether it’s physical, mental or emotional. They may be hungry, tired, frustrated, have had their feelings hurt, or are frustrated because we don’t understand their limited vocabulary. The result of this frustration may be a temper tantrum.
There are certain things parents can do while they’re waiting out this period in their child’s development. According to Dr. Jay L Hoecker, a pediatrician at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, you should do the following:
Dr. Hoecker also says ignoring a tantrum is best. Like Mama in Stromple and the Super-Huge Temper Tantrum, ignore it and never lose your cool – if you do, your child will only learn that kids having temper tantrums run the show.
Kids having temper tantrums can learn that they really aren’t worth the effort!
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